Why did i decide to Blog now?........
I am still thinking what to start with.........
Okie...let me start with the most important stuff in my life : My Friends.........
Friendship influences a lot in your life and defines your foundation to respect relationships. We talk and talk and talk even when we are out of topics, tellin "then wat else" for atleast some 20 times per call. Making sure that everything is okie with your friends by calling them atleast three to five times per week. Starting to make plans on Monday for the coming Saturday not knowing if it ll be a success or a flop :). All these small things really count a lot and feels good. There are many old sayings that imply even if you are away and not in touch with your friends you keep thinking about them and stuff like that but DUH thinking is not just enuf!!!! keep in touch with your friends......In this modern world of communication if you say you cannot keep in touch with your friends then its shameful!!!!
You have no clue how much your friends love you and they do anything for you to make you happy. Everyone makes some plan or the other and surprises others......for wat??? jus to see the happiness in the face of their friends whom they love. One of my best friend made so much analysis on others about what would be the perfect gift for each one in the busy study/exam schedule and surprised everyone with the gifts. This may be a small thing for people who generally dont have true friends but otherwise you have no idea how much love it signifies even though the gifts are materialistic. The actual love and care is shown in finding out what their friends like and spending time to buy gifts in the busy schedules of people in today's world. The stuffs that I have mentioned in this paragraph are generally the things done by committed people for their fiance or husband(but not really!). But people wake up....that is not the only life you have............... you have to remember that you should not forget your friends once you get committed or married or have babies!!!!!...Else with whom will you share all your romantic spices and other tangy things happening in your life???......
When i am really really busy at office, running late...i get a call....and my friend askin me if i have started home and scolding me for staying late in office......and shouting at me that i am not eating properly.....really they care about you...dont they.........they are the only people who listen to all your cribbing and understand your problems and help you out. There were a lot of times when i was down bcoz of work and it was my friends who gave me mental strength and energy to come out of it and made me realize that there are more worthy things in this world to be happy about. And also your friends who always comes to your cubicle to say hi however busy they may be. These may be very very minute things, but you should understand that in this world where people dont even bother to respond to you (if they dont need any information from you that time..sort of mean natures) you should respect and shower love on people who literally come to your cubicle jus to say a "HIIII". That is the epitome of true friendship.!!!!
The most important thing is to give your friends even if you dont get it from them. But i understand you cannot ideally follow this all the time. You say hi to a friend and they dont respond even twice or thrice.....then buddy the person is not worth receiving your hiiiiiii filled with love. This mostly happens with your normal new friends and never happens with your best friends. What happens when you think someone as your best friend.....and you dont know whether they think the same??? It can fool you at times......If they hurt you and forgot your friendship..........its again your true best friends who will come to the rescue when you feel hurt!!!
Making friends is not a big deal, but be true to it (Of course provided they are worth it!!!, in the sense....they are also true to you else its worthless getting your feelings hurt coz of them). Its better not to be friends rather than having a fake friendship!!!!
- to release stress??
- to share thoughts??
- time pass??
I am still thinking what to start with.........
Okie...let me start with the most important stuff in my life : My Friends.........
Friendship influences a lot in your life and defines your foundation to respect relationships. We talk and talk and talk even when we are out of topics, tellin "then wat else" for atleast some 20 times per call. Making sure that everything is okie with your friends by calling them atleast three to five times per week. Starting to make plans on Monday for the coming Saturday not knowing if it ll be a success or a flop :). All these small things really count a lot and feels good. There are many old sayings that imply even if you are away and not in touch with your friends you keep thinking about them and stuff like that but DUH thinking is not just enuf!!!! keep in touch with your friends......In this modern world of communication if you say you cannot keep in touch with your friends then its shameful!!!!
You have no clue how much your friends love you and they do anything for you to make you happy. Everyone makes some plan or the other and surprises others......for wat??? jus to see the happiness in the face of their friends whom they love. One of my best friend made so much analysis on others about what would be the perfect gift for each one in the busy study/exam schedule and surprised everyone with the gifts. This may be a small thing for people who generally dont have true friends but otherwise you have no idea how much love it signifies even though the gifts are materialistic. The actual love and care is shown in finding out what their friends like and spending time to buy gifts in the busy schedules of people in today's world. The stuffs that I have mentioned in this paragraph are generally the things done by committed people for their fiance or husband(but not really!). But people wake up....that is not the only life you have............... you have to remember that you should not forget your friends once you get committed or married or have babies!!!!!...Else with whom will you share all your romantic spices and other tangy things happening in your life???......
When i am really really busy at office, running late...i get a call....and my friend askin me if i have started home and scolding me for staying late in office......and shouting at me that i am not eating properly.....really they care about you...dont they.........they are the only people who listen to all your cribbing and understand your problems and help you out. There were a lot of times when i was down bcoz of work and it was my friends who gave me mental strength and energy to come out of it and made me realize that there are more worthy things in this world to be happy about. And also your friends who always comes to your cubicle to say hi however busy they may be. These may be very very minute things, but you should understand that in this world where people dont even bother to respond to you (if they dont need any information from you that time..sort of mean natures) you should respect and shower love on people who literally come to your cubicle jus to say a "HIIII". That is the epitome of true friendship.!!!!
The most important thing is to give your friends even if you dont get it from them. But i understand you cannot ideally follow this all the time. You say hi to a friend and they dont respond even twice or thrice.....then buddy the person is not worth receiving your hiiiiiii filled with love. This mostly happens with your normal new friends and never happens with your best friends. What happens when you think someone as your best friend.....and you dont know whether they think the same??? It can fool you at times......If they hurt you and forgot your friendship..........its again your true best friends who will come to the rescue when you feel hurt!!!
Making friends is not a big deal, but be true to it (Of course provided they are worth it!!!, in the sense....they are also true to you else its worthless getting your feelings hurt coz of them). Its better not to be friends rather than having a fake friendship!!!!
